You can't ever comprise with the devil, acting a lie will lead to other things, "it's the little foxes that destroy the vine. Both of them went out doing marriage conferences and making statesments about having a good marriage when they knew it wasn't so back home. When they saw it was an issue they should have immediately went to counseling. We as people of God have to stop pretending that we don't sometime have issues and seek for help. We war daily against the ememy but when we find ourselves falling short quit acting as if we don't have any issues and seek help. We as leaders should never think we are above repentance, when we mess up we should humble ourselves and be found repenting with a mind to move forward and not look back, but instead of living what we preach we make excuses.