I don't know the circumstances about your grandson and why he is not in school and who is to blame, but my grandson's mother is 100% responsible; along with my worthless son who has a 5% relationship with his son; yet he keeps having more kids and not taking care of the ones that he has.My son hasn't paid child support in years and I am totally disgusted with him. The mother is totally worthless and comes from a bad background where her mother did her the same way.I knew from her background that she would not be the sort of person that I would want in my family. I think my grandson's mother and father both need to be jailed. It is a shame that grandmothers have to step in and do somebody's else job.