I agree sometimes especially as single parent who have to work; you do the best you can and send your child to school; then sometimes they mess up. It makes it tough for the parent who is trying to raise and educated their kids; but I do have to agree with the deputy sheriff. most times it is 90% the parents fault; and the other 10% like yourself just get caught up in the mess. We can just hope that one day the kids will wake up and see what they are doing is hurting themselves as well as their parents; but in the mean time just keep doing what you are doing; and that's being the best parent you can be.