Everyone wants to blame someone else for bad behavior; there is always a bevy of excuses. Our children learn from example! Children began to imitate us at very young ages, some of the lyrics these kids listen to are disgusting, they are the essence of evil itself. At 13 years of age, I knew better than to pull a gun and KILL another human being. Stop making excuses, you do know better, that is instinctive not taught.