As the adult child of Jim and Patsy Davis, I think it is important to clear a few things up. A friend advised me to go to this website as it pertains to my family. Normally I would not response but considering the situation concerning my family I felt I must. Granted this is not your normal circumstance but after I explain a few things it should explain the chain of events. My mother was ill for 35 years and given the fact that she was 66 years old when we lost her she was 31 years old when she became ill. My mother was a very kind and gracious lady and she had nothing but the best intentions and regards toward people. And if she ever did in fact come across a person that was hard to abide she worried about that person often stating what could have had happened in a person's life that could make someone that way. Her compassion was endless. She never had a lady's luncheon, a dinner party, or a business luncheon as most people do. She never had the kind of interaction that most people think about. Her world was her husband and children and since she did become ill at the age of 31 and given the fact that she had 6 children by the age of 31 there was never time. Then when the illness struck just being in a crowd was a risk for her. The slightest bump from another human being could leave her in pain for many days. So we built a world for Momma that was safe for her condition. And so those 35 years of illness was spent on that piece of property. All birthday parties were at Momma's house and all holidays were at Momma's house. Every child and grandchild through prom etc. came through Momma's house. And through six children, 15 grandchildren, and 5 great-grandchildren her life was very full and she was happy. The happiest times of her life was spent on that piece of property and even due to her illness on her most painful days she always felt like the Lord had given her extra blessings. She would say, "her cup runneth over." But in her lifetime she touched the lives of countless children. Any child that found their way to her door was given unconditionally love and time. They were her favorite visitors. She would often send us to the stores to purchase items for her to keep at her house so that every child had came to her house left with what she would call a "goody." And at times she would buy Christmas for kids that she would hear about in need yet she had never met she just remained anonymous. How many people do any of us know who do things without recognition?! My dad worked hard to provide for six children and an ailing wife during the time before copays. And at times the doctor bills were devastating. For the comment that my dad has used my mom in spite could be the farthest thing from the truth. Is it so hard to believe that some people find a comfort in being near their spouse even in death? Do the math. The mayor election was late last fall. My mom passed away in April. She was in hospice care in the last 5 months of her life. My dad has made the statement countless times that if he had been elected it would have been a matter of weeks before stepping down because my mom had taken a turn for the worst. So to say that my dad would use my mom for something as small a small town mayor's race is honestly absurd. And to assume that someone is an idiot because he wants to be near his wife is sad because obviously this person has never truly known love. As for as why she was not cremated, Momma had said many times she could not feel right about the burning of a human body. So when she requested this my dad's options were limited and in truth my mom was the kind of person that she truly would have never believed that this would have sparked controversy. She was always so opened minded and so understanding of other people's pain and she truely felt like everyone was her friend and that she never thought this would have been a problem. Momma seen the world with a pure heart and had she would have known that the outcome would have turned into this she would have probably have put her feelings last and never asked. But we are taken care of Momma now just as we always did and for someone that never asked for anything but only to give where else should Momma be. For the most part, the response has been positive because most of the local adults were at some point in time touched as a child by the kindness of her that they too feel it appropriate that she is where she is. How many times does a grieving person wish they could just step out the door at any point in time during the day and just stand by the grave of their loved one. Well we can and it is a comfort. We know that Momma is in heaven and that she would not come back if she could and we would not ask her. But it is still a comfort to us. I am not angry at any of the posted opinions. Everybody should be allowed to have their opinions just as people that work for years and make payments to own property should be allowed to have freedom on that property. We are not hurting anyone. We just wanted to bring Momma home. Therefore, in closing my prayer is that my dad can finally grieve without added grief and that we too as a family can be left in peace. Thank you.