I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Loosing a loved one is something only the person experiencing it knows how hard it is. I don't know your financial situation, but I feel sure with 4 kids a bit of financial help would be greatly appreciated. If you have a trust fund set up please post the information. I myself would like to help as much as I can..Dimes add up to dollars, which can help greatly.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Mark S.
Chatt, TN