Listen, apparently you are the one who really don't have your information correct. What the individual said about her not being a wife is 100% ACCURATE. You need to purchase their DVD series of "Teach me how to love you". I have all of them and Juanita has stated out of her own MOUTH how she has fought him, didn't cook for him, wouldn't be home a lot of times because of her schedule. So I whole heartedly agree she never stopped being Ms. Bynum and accepted the fact that she was WEEKS. Now in NO WAY do I condone any physical abuse happenings, but it has to be both ways and for both sides. She has admitted on DVD in color that "he's philosophical, and bougie" when they argue he wants to analyze yada yada SHE SAYS I'M FROM THE GHETTO I WANNA FIGHT, FORGET ALL THAT! Now what kind of heart is that? what kind of love is that coming from her. I have a clip where she said that she didn't make the bed (because she was used to housekeepers) and she even said that she had to "cast the devil out of her" because he asked for a Tuna Fish sandwich..she said I'm Juanita Bynum I'm suppose to be traveling around the country not making no Tuna Fish sandwich. This same woman admitted that she didn't even remember how to turn on the washing machine why? because for the past 12 years prior to her marriage she hadn't made a bed or washed her clothes because she had servants. That doesn't sound like a woman who knew she was a wife.