The Bible clearly states do not provoke the child to angry why do you think that the God of all creation said that. It is because when you provoke a person by continuing to push you will kindle the fight that God has ordain all people with. This fight is put within everyone it is to be used for protection, it our defense. You will never see thing weapon until you have provoke a person to the level of defense. This is the same power that will cause your adrenline to increase when a loveone is in trouble. I am not taking side here but I am speaking from the inspiration of God and it is very sad what has happen to these two wonderful people. But this is what happen when you do not obey God. I tell you a truth I married a man god did not tell me to marry and God let that man almost killed me. I learned a great lesson never I mean never do anything unless God ok's it. As ministers we are Gods' ambassadors he use us to show others the way. How can we lead if we cannot follow. Another lesson I have learn that is to do whatever it takes to get rid of the works of the flesh. It is the working of the flesh and these works only that will cause a man or woman to fail.